Oh?
I'm Not Missing You?
Hm?
~Stanza 1~
Been through just about everything that I could go through
When it comes to relationships.
Don't know what I was missin'
Or why I ain't listen
When I told myself that was it.
But here I go hurt again
'Cause of my curiosity.
Now that it's over, what else could it be?
He decides to cheat?
~Pre-Chorus~
I made a promise never to settle,
Why didn't I keep it?
'Cause I hated the heart break, cryin' & cheatin'
The foolin' around.
But I'm Not Missing You...
~Chorus~
I'm not goin' through the motions
Waitin' & hopin' you call me.
I'm Not Missing You.
You might've had me open,
But I must be goin' because,
I got life to do
I know I'm usually hangin' on
I used to hate to see you go.
But this time it's different;
I don't even feel the distance.
I'm not missin'; I'm Not Missin' You...
~Stanza 2~
It's a shame in a way,
'Cause I feel that I may not
Ever find the right one for me.
Did I leave him this year
Right in front of my face, oh.
Will my love ever be?
Why would I go on a search again?
When I know what the end will be.
What good is love when it keeps on hurting me?
~Pre-Chorus~
I made a promise never to settle,
Why didn't I keep it?
'Cause I hated the heart break, cryin' & cheatin'
The foolin' around.
But I'm Not Missing You...
~Chorus~
I'm not goin' through the motions
Waitin' & hopin' you call me.
I'm Not Missing You.
You might've had me open,
But I must be goin' because,
I got life to do
I know I'm usually hangin' on
I used to hate to see you go.
But this time it's different;
I don't even feel the distance.
I'm not missin'; I'm Not Missin' You...
~Breakdown~
No, I can't be with you 'cause I'm scared.
Felt like I was fallin' when you left me.
I can't keep goin' through life
Unaware of what I'm missin'
Or the person that I could be.
Love's good when it's right.
Bad, when it's left in you memory.
All the times & anytime.
I guess love would be nice for someone, as this life...
I'm Not Missin' You...
~Chorus~
I'm not goin' through emotions
Waiting & hopin' you call me.
I'm Not Missin' You.
You might've had me open
But I must be goin' because
I got life to do.
I know I'm usually hangin' on
I used to hate to see you go
(I used to hate it).
Different...
(Don't feel the) distance.
I'm not missin'; I'm Not Missin' You...
~Chorus~
I'm not goin' through emotions
Waiting & a hopin' you call me.
(knocking at my door)
You might've had me open
But I must be goin' because
(this is the best day of my life)
I know I'm usually hangin' on
I used to hate to see you go.
Different...
(don't feel the) distance.
I'm not missin'; I'm Not Missin' You......
Ohhh.
I'm Not Missing You...
No baby...
I'm Not Missing You...
I'm so over you. fades out
Get my hopes up when I'm in love
Until we break up then I'm back to the
Same spot, I've been lonely, drownin'
'Cause every guy turns out to be the same.
So now I'm questioning Is It Me to blame?
Chorus:
Is It Me? Am I so complicated?
Is It Me? Or is love over-rated?
Is It Me? 'Cause I don't quite understand.
Why it never turns out how I thought I planned it.
Is It Me? Am I too independent?
Is It Me? Not ready for commitment?
Is It Me? 'Cause it doesn't seem to last
And it's the only question that I never asked.
Ooh la la la
La la la...
I'm Not Missing You
I'm Not Missing You Song Meaning, Biblical Reference and Inspiration
The song "I'm Not Missing You" by Stacie Orrico explores the difficult journey of breaking free from a damaging relationship and reclaiming one's sense of self. It opens with a reflection on past relationship experiences, acknowledging a history of getting hurt and failing to heed inner warnings. The lyrics convey a sense of frustration with repeating negative patterns, specifically mentioning infidelity as a source of pain, and questioning the choices that led to yet another heartbreak. This establishes the context of a cycle the narrator is determined to escape.
A central theme emerges as the narrator contrasts her current emotional state with past behaviors. The declaration "I'm Not Missing You" isn't just a simple statement; it's a powerful assertion of a changed perspective and a conscious decision to not fall back into old habits of waiting or hoping for a return that would only lead to more pain. The chorus highlights this transformation, noting that unlike previous breakups where she would "hang on" and "hate to see you go," this time feels different. The absence of the familiar ache and the feeling of distance signify a significant emotional detachment and a step towards healing and independence.
The motivation for this shift is rooted in self-preservation and a newfound focus on personal well-being. The line "I got life to do" encapsulates the realization that staying emotionally tied to this relationship prevents her from living fully and pursuing her own path. The breakdown section further articulates the fear of falling when the relationship ended but pivots to the understanding that dwelling on the past or staying in a harmful situation means missing out on discovering her own potential and the person she could become. It underscores the idea that true growth requires letting go of connections that are no longer serving a positive purpose.
While the song strongly asserts moving forward, it also touches upon the vulnerability and uncertainty that comes with leaving a relationship, particularly after repeated disappointments. The second stanza briefly questions the possibility of finding true love in the future, wondering if she's missed opportunities or if love will always result in pain. This adds a layer of authenticity to the narrative, showing that moving on doesn't instantly resolve all doubts, but the commitment to the present decision to not miss the past remains firm. The repeated chorus reinforces this resolve, solidifying the message of liberation and self-focus despite lingering anxieties about the future. Ultimately, the song offers an inspiring message about finding the strength to break cycles of hurt, prioritize one's own life and future, and make the choice to step away from what is detrimental, even when it's difficult. It speaks to the power of resilience and the possibility of moving towards a brighter future free from the weight of the past.
